Dear Victoria

By Victoria Howard

Dear Victoria,

I am a successful, intelligent and somewhat handsome 42-year-old man, who has trouble committing to one woman. The problem I have is that I’m looking for a woman who wants me for “me” and not for my money. I am so sick of visiting upscale bars and meeting the same type of woman, over and over again. The first thing they do is look to see what type of watch I am wearing. They ask me what I do for a living before finding out my name. Then I notice them looking to see what type of car I get into as I leave. (I drive a new Porsche)

I really want to meet my soul mate and have children, but I am afraid of ending up with a gold digger as most of my buddies have; only to end in divorce court. Do you have any advice on where I can go to meet my Ms. Right?
Sick of Gold Diggers

Dear Sick of Gold Diggers,

I am confused. You are giving me mixed messages. First you say you’re sick of gold-diggers, but continue going to the places these women attend. Second, next time wear a $40 time and drive a Rent-A-Wreck. When they ask your occupation, tell them you are unemployed. if a woman is still interested, she may be the one; if not: kick her to the curb! Why not try joining a charity, or volunteer at Animal Rescue League?

Most women, who are helping our four-legged friends, have a heart and are looking beyond the pocketbook. In any event, you will undoubtedly meet many (four legged) females who will give you unconditional love and love you for you!
Victoria

You can e-mail Victoria at dearvictoria39@yahoo.com